all i was trying to do was help some one out who might be looking for a foster lubricator, and at the same time keep my head above water, as times are very hard for those of us with out a job, and a traction engine(s) to look after. BUT!!!!! its not just this that has made me to decide to leave this site (once a few things i am interested in have finished), its other things on this site to, not with/at me, but the bitchyness i see towards other people, and a lot of people think the same as me. its also the same on the stationary forum i was on, i could see the bitchness taking place, and i had to stop and think did i realy was be a part of that. all i can say is that aint it a shame that the warm friendship and welcoming hands that we all find on the rally fields are not recipicated on this site. its silly things tbh like crisisum of people spelling mistakes, and when some one offers infomation gainded by years of experiance, people get bitchy and say what they are trying to to tell people its not right, or poke holes in there spelling, grammer, or puncuation!
it wouldnt be fair for me to name the people who also feel the same, but if you ask around you will find people who feel the same as me. The bitchyness i obseve dose show a tendercy of imaturety on some people. i know we all have are moments, especialy wilst under the influence, and we all get worked up if we dont agree with something,but is the bitchyness realy neccercary, and risk upsetting people. we are all suposed to be one happy band of steam enthusiasts, and its devisions with in our movement, and the failure to play as a team at times, that is letting some organisations posable doing things on our behalfs that we dont neccersserly agree with.
think how nice it would if every one on this site could get along with no bitchyness or nastyness.
how many more have left this site becouse of this, and how many have yet to leave???
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(When we preserve our heritage, we protect our future!)
Lord Brett, Bygones Manor, Chedgrave, Loddon, Norwich, Norfolk
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